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Giving a blowjob is one of the ways to show a woman your special relationship with a man. This kind of intimacy means that partners trust and are open to each other. But such oral sex is denied by some women and not everyone knows how to do blowjob correctly. 

Sexologist’s opinion on oral sex

Professionals say that oral sex is good for family life. Husband and wife who practice fellatio often spend their free time together, do not avoid communication with each other during the day.

In such families, according to sexologists, they quarrel seven times less than in couples who do not accept oral sex. According to doctors, men in such couples do not experience problems with sleep, they fall asleep faster, they are not bothered by nightmares and insomnia.

And according to social surveys, husbands who receive oral sex often dream about their spouses. Whereas, on the contrary, in couples where blowjob is prohibited, husbands in a dream more often see strangers or strangers. 

Why do a blowjob, the pros:

• Safety. With such caresses, there is no danger of getting pregnant. The pleasure of your partner can be delivered without protection, without fear of the consequences even on the most “dangerous” days of the cycle.
• Rapidity. If a girl knows how to give a blowjob well, the process takes less than a minute. This can be useful when there is a danger of being seen or there is a time limit.
• Intimacy does not depend on the environment. Sometimes the desire for pleasure can overtake suddenly. If the conditions are not suitable for sex, then it is more convenient to resort to oral sex . For example, at a party, on the street or in transport. 
• Possibility of intimacy at the time of menstruation. In a small part of women, menstruation lasts from a week to 10 days, such is their peculiarity. For young, temperamental men, this is a long time for abstinence, they can hardly stand even five days. At the same time, not all women agree to have sex during menstruation, however, like not all men. Blowjob is a great way out in such situations.

What men don’t like about oral sex?

Such a pleasant process can be overshadowed by some moments. Any man is annoyed if a partner agrees to a blow job as if he is doing a feat and doing a favor. Sexual contact should be enjoyable for both partners, and not look like forced sex. I do not like:

1. When a beloved woman caresses the penis with a cold, stony face, it destroys all romance. A man wants to see at least some signs that his penis is not disgusting, but brings pleasure.
2. Physical inconveniences are very disruptive. For example, when a girl begins to complain that her leg is numb, her back hurts, or her mouth is numb.
3. Teeth can be a big problem. If handled carelessly, they injure the delicate skin on the penis, cause pain.
4. Be careful with sharp nails or rings. They, too, can damage the surface of the penis, causing severe pain.
5. During oral sex, you should not stimulate the scrotum too much, because excessive tension and squeezing of such a sensitive part is unpleasant.
6. Too active movement of a member can ruin the whole mood.
7. You should not have conversations at the time of oral sex, although it is difficult to imagine, but on the forums, men complain about such moments. When chatting, it is easy to release the penis from the mouth at the most crucial moment. 

What do men like at the time of oral sex

Blowjob is a pleasant caress, but there are some things that are especially pleasant for a man:

• The entire penis is not an erogenous zone. Its trunk itself is not as sensitive as the head, head neck and bridle. There are also many nerve endings on the lower part of the trunk. The most pleasant will be the caress of these parts.
• Sometimes the light touch of the teeth is very exciting. These should be gentle touches, not bites. For the greatest effect, it is advisable to keep the same rhythm. 
• Stimulating the penis and testicles with the mouth and hands at the same time heighten the sensation.  

Major mistakes

Women learn how to do a blowjob from pornographic films, where the actions of actresses are aimed only at entertainment, and not at the pleasure of a partner. Now there are blowjob courses, where they teach from scratch, help to avoid popular mistakes. 

• Exposure to the head only is a big mistake, since this part can lose its sensitivity with excessive stimulation. We must not forget about other parts of the genitals. There are many nerve endings on the scrotum.
• Do not start and end abruptly. Men, like women, take time to tune in.
• Do not give a blowjob too intense – the act will end quickly, but it will not differ from ordinary masturbation. The speed makes the partner think that the girl wants to finish the caresses as soon as possible, they are unpleasant to her.  
• The monotony of movements leads to the fact that the man ceases to enjoy oral sex. Ejaculation occurs, but there is no moral satisfaction, and it plays an important role, as well as physiological. Therefore, it is better to change and add new movements and caresses. 
• You need to do a blowjob without stress. Any sexual contact other than violence is joy and relaxation. Strenuous activities cause discomfort. 
• Don’t hide your face during a blow job. Inexperienced women think that they look stupid and ugly at such moments, but men perceive it differently. The face of the partner makes them very excited during the blowjob. 
• Having oral sex without making any sounds is also wrong. When a girl shows with moans and sighs that oral sex brings her pleasure, then her partner’s excitement and pleasant sensations will be many times stronger.
• If a woman is not ready to swallow the semen, you need to discuss this in advance, as well as other details of intimacy. At least at the level like-dislike.

Blowjob types

According to the type of caress, the types of blowjob can be distinguished:

• Clean, with only lips and tongue involved. Hands do not work in it at all. This is a good way for newbies. On this option, you can learn the basic movements. The main thing is to ensure that you do not injure the genitals with your teeth.   
• Combined view. Here you need to do a blowjob not only with your lips, but also add affection with your hands. The penis is stimulated simultaneously with the mouth and hands or alternately. This method is good if the man’s sexual organ is large, the girl needs rest. Hand caress is much more active than mouth stimulation. In this case, you can make movements with your hands so that they look visually beautiful.
• Throat option. Refers to the most difficult methods, but men unanimously claim that this is the best blowjob. It is not for nothing that they call it “royal”. With this option, the penis completely goes into the throat. The biggest challenge is that touching the larynx triggers a gag reflex. This reflex is difficult and often impossible to get rid of. But this can be achieved with training or a spray that freezes the larynx.   

An artificial phallus is suitable as a simulator. It is fixed on the table, for which it is convenient to use the version with a suction cup, and then start training. For a successful dive, exercise is done at a comfortable angle and a long “A” sound is made to help the larynx open. Such training is beneficial and over time the gag reflex disappears.

Technique 

Skillful techniques can add variety to your intimate life and bring many new sensations. To master them, you can watch a video tutorial or go to training. Several common techniques: 

For newbies

They make “O” with their lips and cover their teeth with them. Holding the penis, drive it with wet lips. Having reached the limit of a comfortable state, hold on for a couple of seconds and go back. Repeat movements. You can add a tongue to the action by guiding it along the shaft of the penis.

Popsicle

A very simple, lightweight technique. You need to do a blowjob by pulling the skin on the penis down, thereby freeing the head. And then imagine that it is ice cream and start licking it with your tongue. Any movement, the more interesting the better. To add variety, you can try to write all the letters of the alphabet on the head. The main thing is that the tongue is moist and the teeth do not participate in the act.

Suction

It is necessary to imagine that the mouth is a vacuum cleaner, to draw the penis into the mouth about half, and then try to pull it out, while not weakening the vacuum.

The speed is very different. Many people like it when these movements are made quickly. Here the language is not needed and can only interfere. It is very important to get carried away not to damage the penis with your teeth.

Deep Throat

Or “Royal Blowjob”. The very way that men love so much – the penis penetrates deep into the throat. This technique often causes gagging when performed. For such a blowjob, the larynx is opened and relaxed, then the penis easily slips inside.

There are special sprays that freeze the larynx, usually they contain lidocaine. Having “frozen” the pharynx, the woman loses the gag reflex for a small amount of time. This technique can be learned by training on a faloimetator, but without freezing, all the same, not all women can cope with the gag reflex.

Crazy orgasm

For this trick, a finger is blocked off the channel at the base of the penis through which the sperm passes. At the same time, with the mouth and hand, they continue to massage the penis along the entire length of the trunk. Compression imitates the spasm that accompanies ejaculation. When the channel is released by releasing the finger, an orgasm is more intense and longer than usual. 

Kitty

You need to sit comfortably between the legs of a man and start caressing his crotch with your tongue. From the anus and throughout the crotch, not forgetting about a single centimeter of the body. The movements are reminiscent of how cats lap water with their tongues. 

Wet

To perform it, you need to lubricate your hands with lubricant gel and do not swallow saliva. The penis will be very wet and the sliding will be intense. They take the head in their mouth, and then move away and let it pop out of the mouth with a popping sound.

Butterfly wings

Just below the head of the penis there is an area called the crown. Beneath it is a vertical fold of delicate skin. If this area is constantly stimulated during oral sex, the sensation can be greatly increased.

Rotation

Wet lips are placed around the head and twist it along the line of the bridle. This stimulation produces an orgasm very quickly. It will help restore an erection if she slept. 

Conclusion:

The most comfortable position is on your knees in front of your standing partner. It is necessary to allow the man to make any movements that he wants and not to resist. On the contrary, it is better to help with the language.  

The most important thing in blowjob is not what technique the couple uses, but the mutual desire to please. There is no need to add variety “for show”, it should be sincere and with love.